There are a few type of guys that scare me. The thing is, this shows how much I have GROWN.
I hate to assume things about people, but I'm looking out for my best interest.
If a guy shows how much of a bad temper he has within just a week of knowing him, I'm backing away slowly...!! I can only assume he'll get worse as I get to know him and I refuse to have someone put their hands on me or talk down to me ever again! Of course this is not Foolproof, because the only guy who was abusive was sweet to me for 3 months before that side came out. I'm just saying, if you show it to me and I dont like it, I'm not sticking around.
If you call my phone and I do not pick up, GIVE ME TIME TO RETURN YOUR CALL!! Come on now guy, do not call more and send a text! That's kind of scary and stalkerish! It's not that serious. Whether it is 5 minutes or a few hours later, if I WANT TO I will return your call or text PERIOD. Stop looking thirsty! That is so not attractive! (this of course is different if u are my man, in which case I can only assume ITS IMPORTANT)
Do not bug me about seeing me and when I decided to visit, your house is extremely dirty and your brothers (homeboys) are hogging the only tv playing video games. I am a grown woman and this isn't impressing me. In fact, I don't see why you even think I would "court" you (as grandma would say). I told him we could only be friends... you obviously have no sense.
Do not bug me about when you're going to see me PERIOD! Ask once, maybe twice, but that's it. Obviously if I want to see you, we will collaborate on schedules and ideas and figure something out!
You telling me how good you are in bed= NO NO NO... not impressed. I'm not a teen. If anything it makes me think it must suck because you have to brag. Let your skills speak for themselves IF it ever gets to that.
Do NOT lie about stupid things. YOU ARE NOT my man so therefore, I do not care. Do you because I am definitely doing me! Be real with me.
DO NOT EVER LOOK OVER MY SHOULDER AND READ MY TEXT MESSAGES!!! That is an invasion of privacy and I don't need a guy who is nosy.
I'm sure there are more things to add but I can't think of anymore at the moment. I am very observant and guys turn me off extremely quick. I'm very picky but that's a good thing.